To my good friend, him..

Some people just do not know what is the meaning of "sacrifice" for a friend..
It's not they're selfish..
Although they do think about themselves more, but they do this to stop some further conflicts...
Hence we might think this is an avoidance...
But for them it's not, it's for both parties own good instead, as in not expanding problems..

The point is..
Although we know that the others did the wrong thing..
We still must understand their current mood for why are they thinking wrong...
Listen what they have to say..
Don't be stubborn but to accept what they say although it's wrong
Don't be stubborn keeping advising them because they're wrong..

In these heart-to-heart things..
There's no right and no wrong..
It's all about supportive..
And that's what friends that always beside you are supposed to be

I tell you what's the other meaning of "for your own good"..
It's the case when someone who would betray the other friend just to settle your problem
It's someone who will break a promise for telling the secret to make you understand
It's someone who don't "avoid" and someone who is willing to "sacrifice" himself for your own good...
On the other hand, a friend just lost trust on him, and hence betrayal..


These are the actual image of "avoidance" and "sacrificial"
These are the 2 paths you can choose for the sake of your friend..

The difference between a good "avoidance" and a good "sacrificial" are
A good "avoidance" means you understand you're blocking your friend's way and for his own good
A good "sacrificial" means to share the sufferings and try to understand

And the actual differences is
"Avoidance" is actually for YOUR own good and your friend's own good
"Sacrificial" is you're ready to get yourself into trouble after your friend's problem is settled

But i would like to tell you that i chose "sacrificial" at the time
That's why i have different thinkings than you do..
That's why i lost 2 friends before..

I can't say you're wrong..
It's the path you chose for yourself..


I hope there's a fate for you to see this post